The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? Turns out there's one too. In this article we tell you where it is and how to stimulate it correctly.
What is the male G spot?
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction or an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what is more correct to call it point P. And for most of the general public, it is generally known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are many nerve endings in the prostate, making it a sweet spot for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to sexual play, a man can have an orgasm two (or even three) times stronger than usual.
How to prepare for a search
Many men are full of prejudices associated with anal sex. Though prostate stimulation, of course, can't change a straight man's orientation (and if it can, then he's not so straight after all). Therefore, if you want to search for point P, you must first obtain the consent of your partner. Also, experts advise telling him in detail what he plans to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to ensure that you have a water-based lubricant on hand (preferably tasteless and odorless, so as not to cause accidental skin irritation). Also, be sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
stimulation rules
So now you know where point P is and your man doesn't mind trying. Whats Next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide the correct actions for themselves, so keep the following techniques in mind:
- movement "come here".By making movements with your index finger, as if you were asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough not to scare your partner, but at the same time active enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- Circles and undulations.Circular and undulating movements also work well, and your speed should also be gradually increased. Keep in mind that putting too much pressure on the prostate can trigger the need to go to the bathroom, so it's ideal for a man to empty his bladder before having sex.
- sex toysIf you don't want to go anywhere with your finger, but want to experiment, use massagers for anal play. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not lose anything, but even vice versa.
As a conclusion, we remind once again that the parts of the body have no sexual orientation, so a couple can safely have anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and needs to stop, he should listen to it. In the end, we are all different. You can try it the next time it's ready again, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.