Sexual arousal in men: how to understand that your partner is excited

Sexual relations are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: a woman's appearance, erotic caresses, memories of past intimacy. The sexual reaction of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that should ultimately cause orgasm.

Signs of arousal in men.

Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).

The desire that arises in its manifestations resembles stress:

• increases the rate of breathing and heartbeat;
• dilated pupils;
• voice and behavior changes;
• increases blood pressure;
• muscle tension occurs;
• goosebumps appear on the skin;
• increases salivation.

Excitation process:

1. In men, the main sign of sexual desire is penile erection. Blood flow increases several times the length and diameter of the organ. The increase in length is an individual indicator; a small penis increases more during an erection. It smoothes and hardens. The changes that occur contribute to the insertion of the penis into the vagina.
2. With the transition to intimacy, the man's arousal increases and with it all the body's reactions. They increase heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension. The rhythmic friction of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
3. To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop friction to reduce tension. Discharge appears from the erect penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is a precum that plays an important role in conception.
4. The orgasm is the pinnacle of pleasure; It is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by the eruption of semen. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds may involuntarily escape, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
5. The release of semen occurs due to rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. You start with small portions, gradually increasing the sperm volume. After the first tremors, nothing will prevent the man from completing ejaculation. Each ejaculation is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the area of the head and shaft of the penis.
6. After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood leaves the penis and the organ decreases in size. A refractory period begins, during which the man is not aroused even by a physical impact on the penis.
7. The refraction phase is the time that the stronger sex needs to recover before a new erection. It has no specific duration and can range from several minutes to hours. With age, this gap increases. The angle of elevation of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at age 20 and after age 50 the angle decreases noticeably.

Discharge in men when they are excited.

The transparent slimy discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during arousal occurs with the help of pre-ejaculation. This sticky, colorless fluid is released through the urethra in preparation for sexual intercourse or during masturbation.

The source of lubrication is the Cooper glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.

A transparent secret performs several functions:

• isolates residual urine in the urethra;
• partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
• lubricates the urethra for the passage of sperm;
• The secretion promotes painless sexual intercourse.

Lubrication volume varies significantly between men. It can vary from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main goal of pre-ejaculation is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Precum neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing sperm survival and the chances of conceiving a child.

For couples who prefer to interrupt intercourse to use contraception, the question arises about the likelihood of getting pregnant if lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies on the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that it does not contain seeds. But with repeated sexual intercourse, the residual seminal fluid preserved in the urethra reaches the secretion.

Lack or excess of lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Any manifestation is individual, there are no strict templates into which it must fit. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.

One type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not related to sexual arousal. A white, fat-like substance facilitates movement of the head of the penis as it emerges from the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other problems. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash off the smegma daily.

How to excite a man

A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth the mere thought of intimacy excites him, with age this is no longer enough.

To increase her partner's libido, a woman will need specific releasers or stimuli. It's in men's nature to evaluate visually, so strike attractive poses to turn a man on, wear seductive lingerie and let your hair down. The sight of naked female organs and signs of desire for a partner also contribute to the emergence of a reciprocal impulse.

Various stimuli help provoke arousal in the stronger sex:

• auditory;
• visual;
• olfactory;
• tactile;
• erotic fantasies, movies and more.

It is necessary to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.

1. To do this, it is advisable to study his habits and preferences in music, food, aromas, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, they can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
2. Among the recognized pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, shellfish, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
3. The aroma of patchouli oil enhances sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the aroma of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil, a mature couple will like juniper or sandalwood.
4. Before preparing a romantic evening with an aroma lamp, it is necessary to find out if the chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
5. For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Certain phrases, from veiled hints of intimacy to outright lust, evoke sexual activity in the couple. Frankness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will like to talk about sexuality or praise appearance.
6. Touching of different intensity is a direct way to excite a partner. Monotony is harmful to sexual activity; to attract the desired man, a woman will have to resort to experiments.
7. You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering various areas and erogenous points. Touching breasts and nipples excites the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations, from gentle caresses and kisses to bites.
8. Don't skip the back and buttocks: here a light massage can end with some gentle stroking with your nails.
9. The inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; the partners themselves choose soft or hard touches. For caresses it is necessary to use not only your hands and lips, but your entire body. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous zones. Exploring his language will be a real pleasure. The partner's closeness to the penis, languor and anticipation will quickly lead to an erection.
10. The penis is an erogenous zone for every man; stimulation from it will certainly lead you to the peak of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the organ is the head. The touch and stimulation with your tongue will make your partner forget everything in the world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you will be able to give him real pleasure.

Stimulant drugs

Why do men experience a decrease in sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.

Male pills to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly solve the problem:

• Leader among stimulant drugs. The pills, originally created to treat heart problems, have become a powerful and fast stimulant.
• Medication from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, whose active component improves erection. The drug does not affect the functioning of the heart and liver, and also does not change the composition of sperm.
• Chinese medicine based on ginseng and deer antlers, which has fewer side effects.

Consequences of excitement without release.

Sexual arousal does not always end in sexual intercourse. The body, prepared for release through orgasm, remains in a state of overexcitement. If such situations are specific, there is nothing to fear, they do not threaten health or potency.

What does a man feel when he gets excited without release?

1. discomfort or pain in the testicles, mild swelling;
2. discomfort in the penis;
3. tingling in the back of the neck;
4. pain in the lower abdominal area.

Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.

Pain in the testicles can be a sign of illness. If its size, density has changed or the pain has become sharp and intense, then you should visit a doctor.

Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sexual life. When a man is aroused, it is better to use several methods, alternating the sequence of him. This will give amazing results.